Vacancy - Fancy the job?

[jackcrack909]

So here's my deal

I'm a pretty young guy, and like the rest of us, I enjoy porn, a lot!
Problem is, lately I seem to be running into this issue that porn often thwarts the experience of being with a woman.

I know, it doesn't seem right,

The fact that I'm watching so much porn and touching myself, instead of having a woman stimulate me, seems to be mentally affecting my sex drive.

Then, to my dismay, when I do end up in bed with a woman, its lack luster, its like my dick doesn't care!
I care, but my cock is all like, wheres the porn at?

And the thing is, my fetishes - like bondage and smothering - are usually a part my sexual encounters, so its not like
I'm holding out on myself


I've noticed that when I don't jerk it for extended periods of time I get a rock hard boner for whatever girl I end up with,
so I'm thinking now that I will need to lay off the porn in order to fulfill my sex life.  Kinda sucks right?
I'm writing this at 3AM and a girl I was with just went home, and it wasn't great, let me tell you
Does anyone else share this experience?

[GrayFaux]

I know what you mean.

With porn you always get what you feel like you want at the time.

With sex, not so much especially if its the same person each time.

[zuaror]

Well, Ive been passing thought this lately.

I try to hold myself so I can have a great time with my girlfriend but I simply cant hold myself for more than a couple days.

This sucks =/

[Cius]

I have had similar experiences, yes. What I did was to stop masturbating and stop watching porn. Also, I started working out. I do, on occasion, watch porn, but I to try to leave a few days in between.

[baka37]

I think I read somewhere that 4 days after your previous release, your testerone levels are back to normal. So maybe abstaining for that long would be a good idea?

[pseudo]

Your problem is that you can have any woamn you want in your porn fuelled fanatsies, but in real life you get real women! And they can be dissappointing.
My advice is to concentrate on getting a girl who fulfils a lot of your fantasies and who you feel something for, and don't bother with the others if its just sex for sex. That is often very unfulfilling.

[Baystatecd]

You should try working out your sickest and most disturbing fantasies with a woman and see what happens

[eva0093]

Try wearing a diaper it helps me.

[Hybraxas]

Perhaps you can ask your female friend to do the things you like? She might understand and do it, so you can get better sex.

[putri@nila]

honestly, in my perspective.
porn is safe, totally safe... you cant harm other but you can gain your satisfaction. for me its definitely two thumbs up.
but sex is risk. the risk is big.

conclude: i think you can make a perspective that porn is kind of entertainment and learning proccess.

[ideal1]

Too much porn can kill you envy

First option : you should leave porn (movies, pictures) for several days and see if you can make love to your girlfriend "normally"

Second option : ask you girlfriend to behave differently during inter course and be more horny (maybe with underwear...)


Good luck !

[mojoo]

I took all the porn off my computer and put it on a cd, also got rid of all the bookmarks. Used to get bored at the computer and just end up looking at porn too easily and well then you just can't help yourself.

[orenshai]

try weening yourself off using erotic stories such as on literotica, the brain is still the largest erogenous zone, try merging your fantasies to your reality and write your own, oh and doing the health thing should assist also in regaining your mojo

[3DIT2DCG]

No,

Find a GF that does the things you like.
Because else there is no good sexual connection in the relationship
and that can turn into problems later on.

Dont push her into it right away ofcourse.

Goodluck.

3DIT2D:

[Fastlane]

You know what I did? I continued touching myself, but without orgasms. This helped me a lot. I don't lose my sex-drive, so I can enjoy having sex with my girl.
BUT if I'm horny and she's not here, I can still watch porn. In fact, I think this even increases my sex-drive. And if I'm masturbating but having no orgasms, I can still enjoy the movies and pictures, although I have to admit that it's tough in the beginning. but there's always a point when I simply think ok, I just nearly had an orgasm. That's enough. And the thing is, I don't even have to force myself to stop anymore, it just comes naturally.

Well, might work just for me, but I guess someone might give it a try.

[funkyging]

yeah jsut be careful man, dont overdo it. theres nothing wrong with porn but its modiration that counts just like anything else in this world =)

[zer0]

im kinda having the same problem right now.. im trying to cut down the porn consumption.. "normal" people suggest rubbing one out before sex so you can last longer.. but even if i dont, i still cant finish. i have a few things to work on..

[nosvamostj]

I have had this issue as well and found I had to stop all the downloading :-) with porn you can just search and click and find what you are into and watch it and get off.  With the woman you are with new or old you might not even know what she is into and if you think she isn't into what you are into then why be turned on?  Most likely you won't be turned on at all.  I have found myself now not even wanting to have sex with my GF for other reasons (personal) that do not have to do with porn.  We use to get really crazy or kinky I should say and she would be into things just as much as I would be and I would say let's do this and she would usually do it.  But she has changed from how she use to be and myself as well.  It's more plain sex now so I find myself again watching porn and masterbating.  A few times in the same room while she was sleeping and in the other room phone or laptop in hand.

Maybe depending on how you feel you could look on Craigslist and make a post looking for a woman into what you are into maybe pick one fetish and see if someone will reply or maybe look for a group that is into the same thing.  That way when you talk you already know what that person is into and if you decided to meet you really don't have to dance around the topic.  That might make you hard for sex.  That is what I am also starting to do as well.  Hope this helps.

[lapax]

sex is better porn is for teenagers

[hentaimind]

i agree with most of the people here.
Porn/Wanking does reduce your sex drive.
If I don't wank/watch porn for a few days, the sex with my gf is very good. but at the same time I do have some fetishes she doesnt share, so always go back to porn for that :-)
I'ts a neverending cycle.

[lilradon]

Try to find a balance. Its not like its one or the other
Its true that masturbation reduces your sex drive, but you can always avoid porn a little in advance if you know you'll likely be with a girl that day.
Also i think spending the day with a girl doing activities and then at some point in the evening having sex can greatly improve the experience, since you have been getting hot for her the whole time. (also there is no watching porn while climbing, swimming or whatever with her ;P )

[t1n4444]

Perhaps you can have the best of both worlds. Judging from the sheer volume of webcam stuff available there appears to be no shortage of women (I include dopey, sub 18, teenagers who post explicit stuff of themselves...who are too young to access their own site once the mods take a view, lol) who are up for any kind of sexual activity.

The trick would appear to be the actual meeting of a like minded woman who likes what you like...and goes to the extent of filming herself and uploading her stuff for all the world to see.

So, rather than cutting down your porno surfing perhaps you could alter your angle of attack as it were and search for websites where the aim is to meet a like minded partner for whatever activities "you" are keen on?

Myriads of these webcam sites feature couples who indulge each other so it is merely a case of finding a site you like then subscribing and searching for that "ideal" partner.

Ref the cutting down of "wanking" itself...I've never thought self denial a good idea. You might as well go into retreat to a monastery, weed the cabbage patch all day and pray all night...seeking forgiveness about your unholy thoughts towards the vegetables.

And if you read up on some Australian medical research into prostate matters you will find it is a "good" thing to wank as it clears the gland(s) of all sorts of fluids building up and causing, possibly, all sorts of nasty stuff happening at a later age. In fact the MDs of Oz reckoned it was better to be wanked off by your nearest and dearest than actual coitus. You need only google for yourself.

[charlesmonata]

Buddy remember if you are able to hook up with girls and still thinking porn or sex. Then man remember one thing porn will keep you making your desires more and more. But sex will not. Also if you keep watching porn a time will come that even how hardcore sex you do you still won't be satisfied with it.

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