Vacancy - Fancy the job?

[Smellydiaperlucy]

So, my boyfriend and I have been together about 4 months.....and his a pretty open minded guy, likes plain sex, but open to role-play.


I was wondering, what does everyone think is the best way to introduce him to my diaper fetish? Diapers are my lifestyle. I wear all the time except when with him (don't live together yet). I'm just worried, as 99% of the non fetish community probably see a girl in a loaded (messy) diaper a turn off.


Anyone done this? Especially with a fetish considered so "weird"

Would love feedback.


Lucy. Xo

[Guyver147]

I was worried about the same thing with my girlfriend years ago. I asked her what some of her kinks were and tried to accommodate her. I knew eventually she would ask what some of mine were. Eventually i got to the point where i told her, but i worked my way up to there. I started with desperation, then pee, then diapers. Since she had done the others, i don't think it was that big of a jump for her.

[Smellydiaperlucy]

So i had a bit of a break down and told him, his changed his first diaper now. And he doesn't mind suprisingly......still freaks him out a bit. But his adjusting

Did you ever have a partner who just played along then admitted they don't like it? He seems to generally like it, his history has abdl sites in it, so I know he's been looking. I'm just worried/a pessimistic

[genxer]

I had an ex that played along with my baby side but after me she told me she didn't like it and never wanted to be involved.... but then again I am different. When it comes to real life my sexual life and diaper life are seperate. In person I am not turned on my diaper or any other paraphilia, just like hand jobs and oral.

[BennyBalans]

Wow! If it is a lifestyle you feel you can't or don't want to live without, so I think it's best to be honest and to tell it at a time when you know him well and trust him. When is the time to tell him then? If I would say something like that to anyone, I would feel that I relied a lot on the person. Not so funny if he did not appreciate it all, break up and tell all their friends. And if you wait too long is there a risk that he feels let down because you have not told him before.

 If you told him and he maybe like the news, you might compromise on when to wear diapers. You are, after all, two on it and he had to decide, a little anyway. Two smart people solve this problem.

Good luck 

[youshouldtrythislol]

If you find out he does not much care for it, maybe he has a fetish you may not much care for, but because you care for eachother and want to please eachother, you can just enjoy the fact that you are pleasing your partner?

[Lovelight]

that's great that he responded positively, if he seems creeped out a bit, make sure to thank him a lot and tell him how much you appreciate/love him for it. I had a similar experience about sharing my fetish for discreet outdoor sex (I guess its still exibitionism sorta) with him; at first he was very nervous about it, but after the first time and lots of reassurance, we usually head out to the backyard or a park at night several times a week . Also I can see it on another end, he was very nervous about talking to me about his desperation fetish, honestly I hadn't even considered he'd be into something like that, but after several experiences I found that I started to enjoy it. I think we can have a lot of dimensions to our sexuallity if we are open to exploring them.

[bluedavid]

I was wondering, what does everyone think is the best way to introduce him to my diaper fetish?

Ask him about his fetishes. Then he'll ask you about yours and you can tell him. Be coy and make him work to get it out of you. And be sure to tell him how sexy you look in a diaper.

I've never known a woman into that particular fetish, but I've got to tell you that if I was dating a hot girl who was into it, I certainly wouldn't deny her.

I hope it goes well for you!

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