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*~ discussion/question: SHEMALE PROBLEM PT. 2 . Recovery from porn. ~*
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« on: July 19, 2013, 04:51:13 AM »
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I stopped the orgasm for one week. In this one week sometimes I looked at some kinky porn and played a little. But that's it. No orgasm.
After that 1 week I saw my girlfriend. We had great sex for one night. By the morning I again felt like I lost my interest to it. I came 3 times and that was it I lost the interest and excitement. ( I used some boner pills to help me otherwise I may lose my erection during sex)

Today I was at her house and we had a quickie. Than I left got some stuff to do. When I left the house I saw a tranny hooker on my way.
(You can read my past posts for my thing for shemales)

I picked her up. I holded her dick and masturbated myself. I came and that was it. No big actions because I know the regret will be far too much for me to take. Right now I still feel a lot of regret. It feels disgusting. I don't like men at all. What is that actually turns me on about a dick on a girl? Why do I like shemales? Will I get rid of it after a recovery process? How long should that recovery process should take? What about the sex with my girlfriend? After all those times I am a little shocked that I did something like this. But it's an experience that I want to consider as LAST, this time I got a lot of knowledge about the situation. Still I really wonder will I every be fully recovered? Will I start to get excited by women like when I was 16-17. Is that shemale attraction comes to me naturally? Is there a chance I stop liking women? I hate the fact that I prefer shemale porn or bdsm porn when I'm masturbating especially the shemale part. This fucks with my head. Please help.
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« Reply #1 on: September 22, 2013, 01:43:02 AM »
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Well, it's pretty normal that with each year everyone's fantasies become weirder and weirder. What turned you on when you were 15 will not do the trick when you're 30.
When I was 20 I l had pretty standard desires. I wasn't submissive at all, and tits were great. By 25 I developed/discovered my foot fetish. With each year it has become stronger and now it is the primary thing that turns me on. On top of that, out of nowhere I got crazy about spitting (receiving) which is so bizarre and embarrassing. Then others followed - ass licking, shoe worship, stockings etc. I feel I always liked them but it just intensified significantly. Now I "dream" of being a slave and having a domina. How crazy is that!
In the past year, maybe two, I also have been fascinated with shemales. I also hate this idea and I am angry at myself everytime after I masturbate to it. I would never watch gay porn, but those shemales really turn me on. A few times I even played with my butt hole while watching it. Huge remorse afterwards.
You went a step further and actually touched someone's dick. I'm not sure I would be able to do it even though obviously I fantasized about getting fucked by a shemale.
I don't know man, lets hope more guys share their views, but all I can say is that you're not alone (and I"m glad I'm not either). Can only imagine how messed up I'm going to be in ten years. Shit.
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« Reply #2 on: November 17, 2013, 07:06:17 PM »
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Well, it's pretty normal that with each year everyone's fantasies become weirder and weirder. What turned you on when you were 15 will not do the trick when you're 30.
When I was 20 I l had pretty standard desires. I wasn't submissive at all, and tits were great. By 25 I developed/discovered my foot fetish. With each year it has become stronger and now it is the primary thing that turns me on. On top of that, out of nowhere I got crazy about spitting (receiving) which is so bizarre and embarrassing. Then others followed - ass licking, shoe worship, stockings etc. I feel I always liked them but it just intensified significantly. Now I "dream" of being a slave and having a domina. How crazy is that!
In the past year, maybe two, I also have been fascinated with shemales. I also hate this idea and I am angry at myself everytime after I masturbate to it. I would never watch gay porn, but those shemales really turn me on. A few times I even played with my butt hole while watching it. Huge remorse afterwards.
You went a step further and actually touched someone's dick. I'm not sure I would be able to do it even though obviously I fantasized about getting fucked by a shemale.
I don't know man, lets hope more guys share their views, but all I can say is that you're not alone (and I"m glad I'm not either). Can only imagine how messed up I'm going to be in ten years. Shit.


Fantasising about getting fucked and playing with your butt hole while doing it VS. touching a dick.

There isn't a huge difference.
The main problem is that we get weirder everyday without fantasies.

And the only reason of that is we keep watching porn and finding new porn everyday. Our brain got unsensitive to the old material so we are not aroused by it anymore.

If you can recover from porn, you will get back to the "tits" part. I can assure you that.
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« Reply #3 on: February 16, 2014, 05:40:27 PM »
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After considering my private situation, as well as seeing that no one showed any interest in my posting regarding Pt. 2 recovery from porn, I have removed it to avoid unnecessary private difficulties.
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« Reply #4 on: March 22, 2014, 07:30:50 PM »
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After considering my private situation, as well as seeing that no one showed any interest in my posting regarding Pt. 2 recovery from porn, I have removed it to avoid unnecessary private difficulties.

I'm curious
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« Reply #5 on: April 18, 2015, 12:15:58 AM »
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dont worry and just relax
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« Reply #6 on: April 21, 2022, 09:16:49 AM »
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Whatever your concern is, DON'T GET A GUILTY CONSCIENCE about ANYTHING that you enjoy doing which does no harm to someone else! If you genuinely enjoy something, your chances of being able to force yourself to quit it will at best leave you successful but dissatisfied.

I have gathered some experience in this area. I felt guilty about masturbating and had real conflicts regarding it when I was about 20-30 (yes, that long). As I got older and look back, it was ridiculous and unnecessary, the harder I tried to quit the more important it got for me. And then when I turned about 70, mother nature stepped in and I found myself completely relaxed about the issue; nowadays when I want to wank I wank, but it's become very seldom.

I wish I could have had this insight when I was 20, don't make the same mistake. But I guess there are worse problems.

All the best
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